We've seen the most stupid of things in life and the silliest of ideas, or have we really? Overtime, people has become, or rather, evolved into 'smarter' (so they thought) god's creations simply because the experiences have shown them that they know it all.
This Know It All Doctor is giving classes to Muslim women that being a first class prostitute to their husbands is the way to keep them from straying!
Could be put in a more appropriate way you know... Wives are precious creatures, why put them in the same league as prostitutes?? And doing so publicly has made us Malaysian Muslim women a laughing stock. Worse, the Obedient Wife Club was initiated by a Malaysian Muslim lady Doctor!! How can you be so sure that if a husband is kept happy & fully satisfied is the bedroom he would have no reason to stray or seek outside 'service' or indulge in other social vices??
She doesn't know how people are laughing at her now, she has no idea. Even men don't agree to this nonsense! Obey, Serve & Entertain??? Domestic violence, human trafficking and abandoned babies could be curbed by being a first class whore in bed for your husband?? Is this Doctor for real?? I do not know what this woman was thinking. So shallow.
Readers, the objective is to be obedient to your husband, I agree. But not showing off the idea that being a good sex provider equals a first class prostitute... Ehemm!! Be a prostitute in the bedroom, get chained, get handcuffed, get spanked and play silly sexy sex game woman! But You DON'T ANNOUNCE IT TO THE WORLD that you ARE A PROSTITUTE TO YOUR HUSBAND, in this case, she is. Excuse me, I'm a goddess to my husband.
The younger ones can read, and they might understand it differently. Haven't she thought of that?
'Wah... Mom is dad's prostitute' Oh My God!
Oh Wow!! That really sounds degrading.
I'm a Muslim woman, I know a Muslim wife's path to heaven is her husband. I believe, to be happy is to give and to receive. Instilling the OBEY SERVE & ENTERTAIN idea is making us women, wives, look like stupid sex slave cows. This is what I think, I don't think men will be turned on by the idea of a sexual-object wife. They will get bored after awhile. Why?? Because there is no challenges. An 'easy wife' has no brain of her own. Sorry guys, that was blunt but, I believe it's true.
You don't have to be an executive, a teacher or an engineer. Even a stay-at-home mom is smarter than this doctor. Women without her own desires would not attract good men. Yes, good sex in a marriage is very important, but it's not the only reason how to keep your husband from going astray. Imagine all the wife does is serve serve serve! Hmmm... the husband is sure having a field day. But I'm pretty sure he'll get bored with the 'first class prostitute' if not sooner, later.
If the wife's first and foremost duty is to OBEY SERVE & ENTERTAIN the husband's sexual needs, then it's a shame. It's not about now that we're living in modern world, men women are treated equal, men has needs women has desires too... It about having a sacred and respectful relationship. Isn't it enough that we have to accept the idea that our Muslim men are allowed to have four living wives?? Now we are told in order to keep our husbands happy in bed, we must become his first class whore. What she meant was, Be The Best Lover You Can Be To Your Husband.
Doctor R has put it at the most inappropriate manner that has made my girlfriends and I fueled by the stupid & disrespectful statements. She has made us wives look cheap. There is no wrong is 'acting' like a whore in intimacy, but you don't go using this concept educating wives that it's the way to keep the husband happy. Some men has their own sexual fetishism, but we women also have rights to not 'obey' to the requests & absurd needs. Good husbands will adjust to the situation, they will not force their wives to understand their kinky sexual desires. We women contribute more than just being a sex toy.
So, if he's in the mood, and I'm not, I still have to give in?? If you don't do it, your husband will go look for another woman, or worse, commit a serious offence?! All because that I refused to serve him?? And what? I go to hell later??! Any conscious, right minded, healthy, practical & sensible husband would not force his wife to open the door to his heaven if she's not ready or simply not in the mood. Husbands who loves their wives truthfully would not allow their wives to join this stupid club. It's an embarrassment to the society and a wrong approach of educating women how to keep the marriage together.
Think. Doctor R is a wife no 3. Why did the husband came looking for her? Wife no 2 was not a first class prostitute??
She got the publicity that she was looking for. But, she has become a joke, as far as I'm concerned.