Sunday, October 10, 2010

Step, Stab, Swim & Sink

That is why I started this blog. Not to brag, not to show off (what to show off??) and most of all not to make you puke or envy with hate.. I admit it, I am a very lucky person, syukor alhamdulillah.. Thank you God.

I'm blessed with a lot of great things in life, my family and I do not have all the money that could buy everything that I want but I definitely have all the things that I need. Some bloggers I know received harsh comments from their readers, obviously jealous and envious of the glamorous and rich (with money) high profile lifestyle their living. Yes, I would not care either of what others say about me but it sure would bother me for a little while. 

I am here to share.. ideas, tips, recipes, life experiences and views on everything in life. I specially love sharing with the women readers the stuffs I purchased which are cheap and affordable that are worth every penny spent, or at least I think so. Of course if I start flaunting Chanels & LVs on my blog continuously for the 13th time in a row, who wouldn't start to feel nauseous by the back to back posting of bragging and showing off..? 

If you can take those 'rich lifestyle' blog postings positively, then you are on your way to live a better life. Copy their style, follow their footsteps, imitate their energy & drive, apply their classy attitude.. but do it within your means. To be successful and to achieve contentment in life has a lot to do with positive attitude and kindness, and far, far, far from being envious and black-hearted. They are human too, the only difference is that they're born with a silver spoon in their mouth. They are there so you can be inspired and have the desire to work hard to have a better living. With that in mind, you'll be driven to work harder at whatever you do to achieve ultimate success. With positive attitude of course, and positive envy. 

Speaking of envy, there are individuals who'd do anything to be at the top. They'll step and stab whoever are in their way. They'd get what they want, eventually. And others will soon give in, do not want to be in THE way of unselfishness. See how far you can go.. Yes, no doubt you can go very very far, hurting all the people around you all along the way. But God is great.. What goes around, comes around. 

One story I heard this week.. She's a manager. Well ya, only know how to instruct but the actual work was done mostly by others and of course, she takes most of the credit. Long story becomes short, tragedy struck her family couple of months back. Her only child, her only 20something daughter went into a coma after collapsing while jogging in the park. They brought the daughter back home but she's just like vegetable now. Breathing but brain dead. Colleagues aren't that sympathetic of her misfortune. One was wondering why.. Because her colleagues aren't fond of her, colleagues don't emphasize as much as they should. Why?? Because she steps on people to get where she wants to be now. Stabbing colleagues to get to the top of the organization. 

Well, it is not for me to say because of her evil conduct that caused God to punish her with a vegetable like daughter. Pity ya, as a mother, you'd trade places with your children so they won't suffer. So that they'll live a life you dream of them having.. 

I've seen it... (This is another different story) After all the step & stab, she eventually ran out of bad 'footing' and 'sharp knives'. When sisters came to me, I always advised them to just focus on their own tasks and manage their daily routines sincerely wholeheartedly. Others will hear what aren't actually true from the back stabber and I do believe, the truth shall always prevail. And it did.. She finally sank, drifting too far away from shore, swimming with all the energy she had left and grabbing to anything she could to stay afloat. Thinking the 'log' would keep her afloat, the log knew too well already of her evil step & stab ways. Kayu pun lari!!

Imagine having everyone around you avoiding to be near you.. Avoiding to have anything to do with you, avoiding you! Finally if she gave up, it is all because of her own doing. Yeap, she might make it to the shore but she'll be all by herself. Only monkeys lah will accompany her on that step & stab island that's gotten her to where ever she wants to be in life. Or maybe she'll just sink under water and turns green for running out of air...... Green With Envy! 

7 comments:

Kenny De said...

to many graduated as PHD. :(

Anonymous said...

Masuk air then dia jumpa shark, baru tau!

Ms Tikot said...

Buat baik dibalas baik...Buat jahat, jgn sekali ;-)Bersyukur dgn segala yg org lakukan pada kta, cz klk benda jahat iteww akan kembali kepada mereka semula.

Ain said...

well said. just do your thing & don't let others dampen your spirit. *ur silent reader that finally speak up* :)

Ida Athanazir said...

Kenny, terlalu pandai lah tu...

.. pirahna better!

Ms Tikot, betol kata kitak. We do not wish the bad thing to happen to them but God is great. Yes, we suffer by their back stabbing but after awhile, it all will stop. Kita sabar saja lah...

Ain, tq. That is what Im trying to do. Sometimes feel a bit down by all these ugly people but it sure will pass soon after.

Anonymous said...

Kak, orang yang hati busuk memang menyakitkan hati, kan? Biar dia puaskan hatinya bergosip, lama kelamaan senyaplah bila penat.

Wan Sharif said...

In actuality .. we lived in this world for a very short period of time.. so jauhkan diri dari sesuatu yang kurang menyenangkan (kita dan makhluk lain)..

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