Friday, October 23, 2009

He's Not.. He Is.. He's Not.. He Is...

How would you know that "He's Not That Into You"? You are so head over heels in love with him you are sometimes (most of the time actually) in denial, that ... he is just not that into you. You know it, really deep deep down you know it!!

But Love Conquers All? True. Some would kill for love, I've been told.

He Is Into You when ...

1. He would answer your calls no matter how busy he is. If he does not answer, he will find a way to text you, within minutes. Your love wouldn't let you wait for a (one 1cent text) reply.

He Is Not That Into You when ...

1. You call and he does not bother to answer. You thought he was sleeping ... okay, acceptable, but when you left a message he replied (within minutes, obviously was wide awake) he's tired. Your love wouldn't let your calls unanswered and ignore the rings.

He Is Into You when ...

2. He still manages to call and email and send a chat to say hello, while busy at work.

He Is Not That Into You when ...

2. He says he's busy with work, occupied, tired and all but when you browse through his activities on FB, he still manages to comment on status/photos of other lady FB friends, at 2 in the morning!

He Is Into You when ...

3. He is the one that you can always run to when you need a friend to talk to, when you need to borrow 200bucks to replace a stolen cell phone, a friend to have that teh tarek you've been craving for all afternoon (he'd be there in 15 minutes after you hang up the phone saying you need a company).

He Is Not That Into You when ...

3. He will only call or text when he needs your help. Needs you to buy that something that's just across the road from your office (you thought... not far, just hundreds meters away. would do anything for him anyway!). But when you're in need to be heard, he's .... 'busy'.

He Is Into You when ...

4. He got a promotion and supposed to be transferred outstation, he turned it down. Because he does not wish to be far from you.

He Is Not That Into You when ...

4. He said he needs to take this opportunity for his career advancement. "Bye... I will call you."

He Is Into You when ...

5. He's supposed to be enjoying his day off but prefers to work that day because you're there.

He Is Not That Into You when ...

5. He's unreachable on his day off because he having a 'day off'.

He Is Into You when ...

6. He would call you every few hours just to ask you where you are, how you're feeling, what you're doing.. No! He's not being a control freak, he's being caring & concern because he loves you and worries about your well being (GUYS, if your ladies say you're making them feel 'rimas', then they don't deserve you).

He Is Not That Into You when ...

6. He says he forgot to call yesterday ... and the day before, when YOU finally decided to call asking where's he's been the past couple of days.

He Is Into You when ...

7. His phone rings, he answers and says 'later dude..!' while having lunch with you.

He Is Not That Into You when ...

7. He just lets you sit there staring at the food while he's busy texting other people and busy making important calls.

He Is Into You when ...

8. He's driving (on auto) he would reach over to hold your right hand. And keeps holding your hand in front of everyone.

He Is Not That Into You when ...

8. Holding his hand embarrasses him in front of his friends.

He Is Into You when ...

9. You need instant cash within hours, he'd find a friend to lend him cash, for you ... in half hour.

He Is Not That Into You when ...

9. He says you're being ridiculous asking for 500bucks even when you don't have anywhere else to turn to.

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I am not perfect, but I want a perfect relationship, all of us do. True Love...? Yes, it exists. Not everybody is lucky in love. I consider myself very very lucky. Lucky to find one another, love one another, happy with one another. I feel complete.


7 comments:

AmirFX said...

Entry yang best.. GUYS shud know about this.. Bukanlah nak bias dgn lelaki, tapi tok adalah reality... Kmk dah polah hampir kesemua... Nak nikah jak lom.. haha...

miserable said...

in love and in misery :(
my eyes are wide open now

naqiubex said...

hoho.. a bit of tips about love ha..
maybe I need to learn about this a little bit..
Who knows I need it when i am married.. haha

Mdm.Nyza said...

mek baca sis, teringat balit time berchenta marek.. list he is into you when ya Alhamdulillah. semua ada... hehe..

Ida Athanazir said...

Amir, bagus lah. Jgn sakitkan hati yg syg dengan kita

N.bex, should be practised dari belum kahwin

M Nyza, Alhamdulillah, mudahan bahagia sentiasa!! InsyaAllah...

Anonymous said...

aunty! nina tok... love ur post! permission 2 post it kat fb ya!? ofcourse with ur name on it! ;) i'll tag seri on it... thanx!

Ida Athanazir said...

Nina, no problem dear. Of course for me, what ever I've written memang pakei share love!

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