"I'm spying on you, you know?!"
Who would tell anyone that they're spying on someone, specially to the person he's spying on. I think he's much more stupid than my DONKEY. He's the King of all donkeys! World class moron.
One of the Major Causes Of Failure in Leadership; Disloyalty, to his trust, to his associates, those above him, and those below him. I was under him, and trained by him. I did well, but not 100% by his effort, ehem!! Excuse me! ... Being a leader, it is expected to have your followers respect you, and to have that respect, you as a leader must respect your followers too. To me, he was disloyal & disrespectful, no sense of justice. We're in the same team, he asked another staff to spy on me and believed all that he heard. Giving me the cold shoulder all of a sudden. I was confused and wondered what happened. What a pussy!! Didn't even dare to confront me with his 'report'.
"Without a sense of fairness & justice, no leader can command and retain the respect of his followers"; One of the Major Attributes Of Leadership.
I lost respect towards him altogether, still doing my job with 100% effort, but whenever he came around I just ignored him. He had a question, I answered, he asked 'how are you', I said 'ok'. Ya lah, he was my leader. Never show your negative feelings, it can be used against you, later.
"No slovenly, careless person can become a successful leader. Leadership calls for respect. Followers will not respect a leader who does not grade high on all of the factors of a Pleasing Personality"; Another one of the Major Attributes Of Leadership.
Initially, I thought he had it (the pleasing personality), but it showed later he was being 'nice' to certain persons only. 'Pilih Kasih'. I didn't care really, I don't want his 'kasih'. EEEyuck! And to think that I would suck up to him so he'd do a good report on me? No way! I know I didn't do any wrong, my superior knew that. Sucking up was his job, sucking up to our big boss, with his 'hello-I-love-you-boss' smile, gimme a break! Yeah, he got promoted, he sure did a great sucking up.
A few months later, his friend was caught for CBT. So called the 'most trusted of all'. What say him? What was there to say? Boasting about his leadership; entrusted with new outlets, well trained staffs, maintained high standard in cleanliness, gained great admiration from the top management......... bla bla bla.... all the while with a thief who was his closest friend. Shut up already Donkey!