One of our special days has arrived. No, not the V day, it's our 17th Wedding Anniversary ... Just so happen we wanted to wed on a Friday and that next coming Friday was the 14th February.
Can't plan so much for today as I'm booked by 3pm. Mom & dad had organized a religious class on every Saturday nights and this afternoon I'll be helping mom to make 'bubur ayam' to be served after Isya' prayers. Between Maghrib & Isya', Ustaz Masud will do a Q & A segment. I learned a lot last week about the proper way to do 'solat', a lot of people make bits of mistakes here and there, so have I. Some questions I had were answered.
I don't think we'll be going out today, so, we'll just have lunch at home. Got lots to be done at home before the afternoon.
17 years is a long time, but it feels like it was only yesterday. We have been so blessed and happy throughout the years, and hopefully for more years to come. I know how lucky I am to have my husband, not many women have the opportunity to be united with a wonderful man. He is everything every woman would want in a husband. But can be super jealous too! And he also has a bit of a temper. But that's ok, I know he loves me very much. Whenever he's jealous (then he gets angry), I always tolerate it and understand his feelings. He'll cool down in awhile, just don't make him angrier. In a relationship, you both can't be the 'fire'. One always has to give in, in our case, it's me. Well, not all the time, but most of the time. If I'm angry, I don't say much, I mean I really don't say much. I can stay mute for days (merajuk la...). He asked one, I answered one. I can be very very quiet and I know he hates it.
I once asked him, "Do you like it when I don't say anything whenever we have a misunderstanding?" "No, I don't. I want you to say something." He told me. "But if I say something, or talk back to you, it's gonna make you angrier, right?" I said. He just smiled. But I know it kills him whenever I go mute. 17 years into our marriage, I think they're only two occasions that I actually used my high tone voice with him when we argued, most of the time I would answer once then, go mute....... Love you sayang & Happy Anniversary!